Showing posts with label Abortion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Abortion. Show all posts

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Do Women Who See Their Ultrasounds Decide Against Abortion?


In the movie Juno, Ellen Page's pregnant teen character is about to walk into the abortion clinic when a protestor outside yells "Your baby has fingernails!" Ultimately, the remark makes her decide to keep it. Although this (hopefully) wasn't Diablo Cody and co.'s intention, pro-life legislature has followed that example. Currently, seven states require women seeking abortions to get ultrasounds before going through with it, and three states mandate that the doctor must show and describe the ultrasound to the woman.

The psychological motivation behind this is the theory that looking at the ultrasound will cause unconscious "fetal bonding" for the mother and make her less likely to abort — however, the original study that discovered this only looked at women who wanted the baby in the first place. So when it comes to abortion-seeking women, how well does this work?

Slate reports that a new study, which examined 15,000 patient records at an L.A. abortion care provider has the answer, and it's honestly not surprising. Women were asked how confident they were in choosing abortion and were placed into two categories: High decision certainty and low-to-medium decision certainty (the latter category only 7.4 percent women fell into). Forty-two point five percent of the whole group opted to see their ultrasounds beforehand, and it's true that their ultimate rate of abortion, at 98.4 percent, was lower than the women who opted not to, at 99 percent.

However, the women who looked at the ultrasounds and opted not to go through with it were women who already had the low-to-medium decision certainty — they were less confident that this was the option for them, right from the jump. In other words, the only women changing their minds after seeing the ultrasounds weren't sure anyway. So the pro-life movement should take note: Women who are positive that abortion is right for them won't be fazed by their manipulative tactics.

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Uncalled For: Jimmy Connors Dredged Up Chris Evert's 39-Year-Old Abortion

May 20, 2013 at 5:49PM By Anna Breslaw |

Man, the reproductive rights system is tough on men. If they forget a condom, the condom breaks, they're not on birth control, or a variety of other factors come into play, they're biologically geared to carry the child of whatever person they bone, and, depending on their geographic location, just may be forced to keep it. Oh, wait, no. That's women!

Nevertheless, Jimmy Connors, former tennis star and fellow Wimbledom champ's Chris Evert's ex-boyfriend, feels shafted by her 39-year-old decision to have an abortion without informing him that she was pregnant. And he's exposed her choice — without her consent — in his new biography, The Outsider, as well as a sardonic aside to Evert: "Well, thanks for letting me know. Since I don't have a say in the matter, I guess I am just here to help." (Via Slate.)

He writes that she may have gotten the procedure because she misunderstood his willingness to take responsibility — i.e. that it had nothing to do with her indidual choice at all — to be "was perfectly happy to let nature take its course and accept responsibility for what was to come." Which, in this case, is implied to be that Evert put aside her seven time #1 worldwide pro tennis ranking (and career winning percentage over 90 percent, a record that's never been beaten by another woman or man), to keep it for him. I won't even say "baby" or "child," because we have no idea how far along she was, nor is it any of our godd*mn business. It's her story to tell, and the fact that he even thinks he can mention it in his book, let alone shame her for it, is truly indicative of the lingering shame we force on women for having abortions.

Evert was just 19 in 1974, the year that this likely occurred — when she and Connors, dating at the time, won their respective championships at Wimbledon and began appearing in the tabloids as a tennis power couple, reports The Atlantic. Ironically, Connors writes that at another point, when Evert wanted to be comforted after losing a match, that "You can't have two number ones in a relationship." Uh, maybe that's how she felt about her tennis career and simultaneously being pregnant with a cluster of cells contributed by someone who was completely self-absorbed. Or, hell, even if he was awesome! Or a Teletubby! Really, she has absolutely no need to justify her decision to ANYONE.

Evert has since released an understandably terse statement:

In his book, Jimmy Connors has written about a time in our relationship that was very personal and emotionally painful. I am extremely disappointed that he used the book to misrepresent a private matter that took place 40 years ago and made it public, without my knowledge. I hope everyone can understand that I have no further comment.

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Another Day, Another Crazy Abortion Claim from a Conservative Male Politician

Korin Miller
Korin is the site director for Cosmopolitan.com. She loves uncovering cool new research and learning more about what makes guys tick. Outside the Cosmo office, you can find her running with her dog, trying to convince friends to go to karaoke bars, and watching as much reality TV as humanly possible. Hit her up on Twitter: @korinmiller
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Dara is the associate web editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's intrigued by all things digital. Dara loves playing with html and discovering new studies. When she's not reading up on the latest cocktail recipes (for work, of course), she can be found breaking it down on the dance floor or watching the Investigative Discovery channel. She also has a sick obsession with nail polish, elephants, and most importantly, Nutella. Dara basically lives on Twitter, so tweet at her and say hey: @dadeeyo.
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Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Face-Palm, America: French Government Will Cover All Abortion and Contraception

Korin Miller
Korin is the site director for Cosmopolitan.com. She loves uncovering cool new research and learning more about what makes guys tick. Outside the Cosmo office, you can find her running with her dog, trying to convince friends to go to karaoke bars, and watching as much reality TV as humanly possible. Hit her up on Twitter: @korinmiller
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Michelle is the news editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's obsessed with interviewing celebrities and spotting the latest pop culture trends. Her life highlights include chatting with Ryan Gosling about sex dolls, dancing on stage at the Oprah show, and shopping with her mom on Long Island. Tweet her: @michelleruiz
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Dara is the associate web editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's intrigued by all things digital. Dara loves playing with html and discovering new studies. When she's not reading up on the latest cocktail recipes (for work, of course), she can be found breaking it down on the dance floor or watching the Investigative Discovery channel. She also has a sick obsession with nail polish, elephants, and most importantly, Nutella. Dara basically lives on Twitter, so tweet at her and say hey: @dadeeyo.
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Elisa Benson is the senior editor of social media for @Cosmopolitan?so, yes, she tweets about sex for a living. Elisa grew up in Ohio, attended Colgate University, and wrote love and relationship advice for Seventeen before graduating to Cosmo. She lives for girly things (weddings and eyelash extensions and Pretty Little Liars?) and frequently tweets about all of the above: @elisabenson.
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Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Confused About the Abortion Pill?

Women have been using mifepristone, aka the abortion pill, for more than a decade. But lately, anti-abortion groups have ratcheted up their scare tactics—saying it causes breast cancer, infertility, and deadly infections—and are pushing laws that block your access. It's time to set the record straight.

How It Works

Medical abortion requires two pills. The first, mifepristone, causes the embryo to detach from the uterine wall. Most women don't feel a thing. Two days later, a pill called misoprostol contracts the uterus to expel the embryo. You can expect heavy bleeding, with clotting and bits of tissue, to last about two weeks. Crazy fact: The pills are only 95 percent effective. If you're in the unlucky 5 percent, you can do it again or opt to have a procedure.

How to Get It

Years ago, the FDA set a protocol that requires women to see a physician three times: to get three mifepristone pills (which you swallow in front of your doc), then two days later to take two misoprostol pills, and two weeks after that, to ensure the pills worked. Since then, most doctors have adopted a safe, lower-dose regimen that is less trying. You go in twice: first to take one tablet of mifepristone--you take the misoprostol a day or two later at home--and for a follow-up visit. For help finding an ob-gyn or clinic, call the National Abortion Federation at 877-257-0012. Don't even think about ordering online!

When It Gets Tricky

Because many docs don't use the official-but-outdated FDA plan, anti-abortion lawmakers argue that the drugs are unsafe and are going to great lengths to restrict them. Texas may soon require four doctor visits for nonsurgical abortions, including one for a (medically unnecessary) ultrasound. That could mean hundreds of dollars for the test, hours in the car driving back and forth to scarce providers, and days of missed work. Indiana wants you to pop the pills only in a surgical center. Wisconsin makes an MD determine as a "matter of fact" that her patient wasn't coerced into taking the pill. While providers like Planned Parenthood are challenging the law, they've had to suspend all nonsurgical abortions in the state.

So, Is It Safe?

Yes. A recent Princeton University study found that less than 1 percent of women who take it experience any serious medical side effects. In rare cases, bacteria can make its way into your cervix and cause an infection, but there's no evidence that the pill causes that. Women who have abortions don't suffer long-term psychological trauma either, although your hormones and emotions will probably be all over the place, even if you are sure of your decision. "Prepare for a feeling of loss before relief sets in," says Carin Goldstein, a family psychologist in L.A. Try to find a confidant who will support--not judge--you and help you move on.

SOURCES: RACHEL JONES, SENIOR RESEARCH ASSOCIATE AT THE GUTTMACHER INSTITUTE; ABIGAIL LONG, DIRECTOR OF PUBLIC AFFAIRS FOR DANCO LABORATORIES; TIA PALERMO, PHD, MEMBER OF PLANNED PARENTHOOD HUDSON PECONIC BOARD OF DIRECTORS; LIN-FAN WANG, MD


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Monday, January 28, 2013

Bad Bill: Abortion After Rape Is "Evidence Tampering"

Korin Miller
Korin is the site director for Cosmopolitan.com. She loves uncovering cool new research and learning more about what makes guys tick. Outside the Cosmo office, you can find her running with her dog, trying to convince friends to go to karaoke bars, and watching as much reality TV as humanly possible. Hit her up on Twitter: @korinmiller
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Michelle is the news editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's obsessed with interviewing celebrities and spotting the latest pop culture trends. Her life highlights include chatting with Ryan Gosling about sex dolls, dancing on stage at the Oprah show, and shopping with her mom on Long Island. Tweet her: @michelleruiz
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Dara Adeeyo
Dara is the associate web editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's intrigued by all things digital. Dara loves playing with html and discovering new studies. When she's not reading up on the latest cocktail recipes (for work, of course), she can be found breaking it down on the dance floor or watching the Investigative Discovery channel. She also has a sick obsession with nail polish, elephants, and most importantly, Nutella. Dara basically lives on Twitter, so tweet at her and say hey: @dadeeyo.
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Elisa Benson
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