College Men Expelled for Sexual Assault Are Fighting Against School Investigations

Colleges have been cracking down on sexual assault after criticism that they do nothing to enforce their policies. But now college men accused of sexual assault (falsely, they argue) are also fighting against the harsh punishments [via The Washington Post].

The men think their colleges are making examples of them in a mad scramble to show they're being more proactive about sexual assault on campus. "The way that universities are handling the entire situation is terrible," Joshua Strange, who was expelled from Auburn after accusations of assault, told the Washington Post. "It's kind of a broken system." Even though a grand jury found insufficient evidence to indite him, an internal university investigation felt there was enough there to expel Strange.

Those campus investigations, according to the men involved, are no more than witch hunts. "I wasn't given a fair trial or anything. It's sad that this process can be abused and that the university can totally change somebody's life, with very little evidence," said a student expelled from Brandeis. "In the real world, rape and sexual assault are crimes punishable by going to jail — and rightfully so. Why is this left up to schools?"

Some of these men have found their reputations ruined by their expulsions, despite the outcomes of their legal trials. In June, former Brown University student Daniel Kopin spoke exclusively to The Daily Beast about the problems he has faced from his assault accusation, and Lewis McLeod sued for his diploma after being expelled from Duke when the office of student conduct found him guilty of sexual assault, despite being found innocent by a police investigation.

These seemingly disparate results happen because police have much more stringent standards for their investigations, and for good reason: their end results involve jail time and possibly sex offender status. As much as expulsion can affect a person's life, it's comparatively tame, so schools aren't held to the same standard. But it puts schools in a difficult position: How do they appropriately react to the extremely prevalent problem of sexual assault on campus, without risking a high incidence of false expulsions? There's a rock, there's a hard place, and there are colleges wedged firmly in the middle.

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10 Sexual Revolutionaries You Should Know

If you haven't started watching Showtime's new drama Masters of Sex, following the lives and work of sex pioneers Virginia Johnson and William Masters, you should really get on that. (Seriously, how often to do you get to watch a sex scene between people hooked up to machines with electrodes taped all over their bodies?)

But the show is more than titillating entertainment at its finest: Masters and Johnson — portrayed by Michael Sheen and Lizzie Caplan — were the first to really study what happens to the body during sex (hence the electrodes), so you'll also get some important lessons on the inner workings of human sexuality while tuning in.

However, these innovators aren't the only sexologists you should know about: Here are 10 more who also changed the collective conversation about getting it on.

1. Ernst Gräfenberg

This German physician advocated that there were ppleasure from places other than the P and the V. "Innumerable erotogenic spots are distributed all over the body, from where sexual satisfaction can be elicited," he said in his 1950 paper on the subject. "We can almost say that there is no part of the female body which does not give sexual response, the partner has only to find the erotogenic zones." (This guy knew what's up.) But, Gräfenberg went down in history for one pleasure point in particular: In studying the role of a woman's urethra as it pertains to orgasm he found that there was a sensitive spot in the anterior wall of the vaginal along the course of the urethra. Yes, the "G" in G-spot refers to him, after a sexologist coined the term as an homage to him in the 1980s.  

2. Margaret  Sanger

Take a moment to thank this woman every time you take your pill — she's the reason you have it. A nurse and sex educator, Sanger opened the very first birth control clinic in 1916, founding what would later become Planned Parenthood (and she was arrested for doing so). She remains an icon of both women's rights and sexual freedom: Thanks to The Pill, women who did not want to have children had a way to prevent pregnancy... and of course, it also allowed women everywhere to feel more liberated in bed.

3. Magnus Hirschfeld

This sexologist was an vocal advocate for sexual minorities and founded the Scientific Humanitarian Committee in 1897, the first organization of its kind to campaign for social recognition of gay, bi, and transgender people, and to protest against their persecution. While the Nazis destroyed the Berlin-based building the committee was housed in during World War II, the spirit of the organization lived on, paving the way for awareness and tolerance for those it supported, as well as future groups like GLAAD.

4. Sigmund Freud

Penis envy, the Oedipus complex, hysteria — Freud certainly gave us a lot to think about when it came to understanding desire, sexual and otherwise. While many of his theories were sexist (he maintained that women were inferior to men) he laid the groundwork for understanding sexual motivations through the lens of past experiences, particularly childhood. He also inspired other sexologists to expand upon his theories or prove him wrong. (Notably, psychoanalyst Karen Horney counteracted Freud's theory that women wished to have penises with her theory of "womb envy," a male desire to bear children, and was the first woman to study female psychology, publishing 14 papers between 1922 and 1937.)

5. Alfred Charles Kinsey

In gathering 18,000 people's sexual histories over the course of his career — and publishing two comprehenvise volumes, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male in 1948 and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female in 1953 — Kinsey's reseach revealed that oral sex, adultery, homosexuality, masturbation, and premarital sex were surprisingly common. Which, of course, pissed off a lot of people at the time. But by normalizing these so-called "perversions," Kinsey's highly controversial research on human sexuality laid the groundwork for modern sexologists. His Institute for Sex Research at Indiana University continues to operate, though it's now known as the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction.

6. Mary Steichen Calderone

After joining the staff of Planned Parenthood as its medical director in 1964, this physician overturned a policy set by the American Medical Association, which had previously prevented doctors from giving information about birth control to their patients. That same year Calderone co-founded the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States, an organization that worked to ensure that everyone had access to comprehensive sex education and sexual health services.

7. Beverly Whipple

This sexologist coined the term G-spot, and presented the very first paper in which the term was used. This led to Whipple being given the unofficial title "The inventor of the G-Spot." Devoting much of her career to female sexuality, Whipple also studied "psychosocially-stimulated orgasms" (allowing women who had spinal cord injury to still get off) and female ejaculation, which was quite controversial stuff back in 1984. 

8. Fred "Fritz" Klein

Believing that sexuality is ever-changing, this sex researcher — who primarily studied bisexuality — devised the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid. [This seven-point scale was built upon a similar model that Kinsey had developed. But Klein's more multidimensional approach took into consideration a person's past, present and idealized future when determining where he or she fell sexually.

9. Dr. Ruth Westheimer

This psychosexual therapist, affectionately known simply as Dr. Ruth, forged a name for herself in the 80's by talking frankly about sex on the radio, and later on TV, which was a novel idea at the time. Answering questions from callers and audience members — no subject too taboo — Westheimer's sex-positive, up-front approach soon made her a household name. Her example set the stage for other sexperts to lend their advice to the masses in years to come. 

10. Betty Dodson

An advocate of masturbation, this sex educator became an icon for sexual liberation with her bestselling 1996 book Sex for One. For 30 years, she conducted workshops on solo sex, during which women would, yes, explore their bodies all together in one room, and she even had a TV show on public access in the '80s so that the ladies at home could join in from afar.

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"Spreadsheets" App Helps Dudes Improve Their Sexual Performance

It was only a matter of time until the invention of an app for guys to scrutinize their sexual performance. That day is here: Spreadsheeds, the brainchild of a bunch of dudes over drinks, can be downloaded to "keep track of how many thrusts per minute they're averaging, measure how long they really last, and how loud she gets," as well as count the calories burned.

There's even the option to share the data with friends, kind of like a creepier version of the Livestrong app. But don't fret : There's no playback option.

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Getting Your Vagina on the Ball: Inside My First Sexual Fitness Class

It’s Sunday afternoon and I’m at the gym grinding my crotch and anus into a medicine ball. I can explain. Today, I am taking a private exercise class called Women’s Sexual Fitness taught by 57-year-old chiropractor and personal trainer Edythe Heus. For the next 50 minutes, I am going to do things to a bouncy ball that would have me arrested in most states (definitely Texas). The point of the class is to use your lower abdominals to awaken sexual energy and strengthen orgasms. It's Pilates Gone Wild.

It all started back in 1997, when Edyth was living in Dana Point, Calif. working as a private chiropractor for Major League Baseball players. After a few months of training something strange happened. “One of the players came into my office and asked, ‘Am I supposed to feel really horny after doing these ab exercises?”

Edythe was secretly relieved that she wasn’t the only person who had a mean case of the tingles after training. “Then another client asked me the same thing, and another, and finally after ten people came to me with the same question, I couldn’t ignore it anymore. I was like, ‘The universe is telling me something!’ So I decided to start my own program.”

Although she knew she was onto something good, she didn't unveil the program right away. Afraid that teaching a class with an erotic slant might discredit her as an athletic trainer, she kept her sexual fitness program under wraps. Now that she owns three gyms, has over 100 trainers working for her and a dedicated client base, she's ready to share her expertise. "I want people to perceive this class, not as anything pornographic, but as a natural, essential part of health, wellness and personal fulfillment."

On the gym's website the class is described as, "a 50 minute class for all women wishing to awaken or expand their sexual fitness and energy to give rise to improved pelvic floor tone, sexual pleasure, enhanced athleticism, abdominal tone and feminine empowerment."

I'm sold. I enroll in the class and head to Revolution in Motion gym in New York City. Before I leave the house, though, I call to ask about the dress code. What exactly does one wear to a sexual fitness class? "Just bring nipple tassles and a hula hoop," the receptionist said. No, she didn’t say that, she just told me to wear comfortable yoga clothes.

When I arrive at the gym, Edythe is there to greet me. Standing under five feet tall, with miniature hands and feet and a pixie haircut, she looks like Tinker Bell in Sporty Spice drag. In a form-fitting tank-top, I notice her sculpted arms, toned back and flat abs, there's not a wrinkle in sight. If I look that good at 57, I'm throwing myself a party.

"There is another class going on at the same time as ours," she explains. "So we have to share the room." That means that while Edythe shows me how to work my bone-zone another trainer five feet away is teaching students how to blast their quads. Awkward.

The first exercise Edythe has me do is bounce up-and-down on a ball. It's kind of weird at first because we are both silently bouncing in unison and staring at each other. It feels like we're in some surreal performance art piece. I'm not sure if I should smile or say something. Thankfully, Edythe rescues me with some instructions. “I want you to feel your entire vagina on the ball, really press it on there.” Then she stares at my privates and asks, “Are you feeling anything?”

I make eye contact with one of the men doing calf-lifts on the other side of the gym and get red.

“Well...are you?”

“Yes,” I shame-mumble to the floor. “It feels kinda tingly.”

“Great! That’s just what we want!” She beams. “We are trying to move energy from your vagina to the top of your head. Tell me when you’re head is buzzing.”

After a couple more minutes, I start to relax and have some fun. “What’s so weird about two adult women doing synchronized erotic bouncing, anyway?” I ask myself.

After we both get mildly light-headed, we switch to another move. Straddling the ball we slowly move our hips from side-to-side. Within five seconds I realize something new about myself: I LOVE WORKING OUT! I am totally turned on and I even feel my abs getting stronger. By this point both Edythe and I are feeling way more relaxed and silly. We start cracking dirty jokes and acting like old drinking buddies.

The next exercise is on the floor. With our backs on the ground we lift up our hips and place our feet on the ball. Our legs are open wide in a diamond shape, stretching out the groin.

“This is a good exercise to prepare you for missionary-style sex and cunnilingus because it helps you to relax with your legs open.” “Oh, don’t worry Edythe, I know how to relax in this position.” We high-five.

After a couple more floor exercises and squats we are ready for the final cool down. The last exercise of class is maybe the best thing I've ever done. You just drape yourself onto the ball and rock back and forth until you're in a deep trance.

By the time class is over I feel like I've had a full body massage— just completely relaxed and totally horny. As I gather my things to leave Edythe calls out to me, "Good luck, Rose! I hope you have sex tonight!" Me, too Edythe, me too.

I turned to look around the studio one more time before leaving. I am sort of sad to part ways with the medicine ball after everything we've been through. “I’ll never forget you," I whisper to the used piece of gym equipment and then turn and walk away.

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How Get Your Crush to See You As a Sexual Being

moving cross country, finding a great partner... or lobbing off all your hair a la Karlie Kloss). But don't fret: It's not an impossible task. It just takes some thought—and great advice.

"A lot of times people don't like what they're doing in their current job, but they haven't defined what they want to be doing in their potential new job," Nicole Williams, career expert and author of Girl On Top, tells Cosmopolitan.com.

She says nabbing your dream job starts with doing some soul-searching: "I ask people to assess components of their current working life, and match them against the career they are looking to get into."

Try asking yourself these questions...

Time: How many hours do you want to work and in what kind of environment? Big company, small, telecommute, work-from-home flexibility (you know, the kind banned at Yahoo!)

Challenge Level: How important is growth potential and being challenged to you? Are you ambitious and ready to lean in, or just looking for a 9 to 5 to fill your time?

Work Environment: Define your best possible scenario in terms of work relationships. Who are you working with and for? What kind of boss would be ideal? Do you have dreams of becoming a boss?

Passion: How important is passion to you? For example, a woman we know races triathlons and feels like she doesn't need to be passionate about her job; her passion is attached to her sport.

6. Money: How much do you need to make? How much money do you want to make?

Steps To Making A Career Change

Stop Delaying

"The longer you are in the job you are thinking of leaving, the further away you are from new opportunity," says Williams. "It doesn't get any easier. Doing it earlier is emotionally, mentally and professionally better."

Be Willing To Sacrifice Something

You may have to start from the bottom (or the middle) and work your way to the top; Either way, be ready to drop a few rungs on the corporate ladder.

"Internships can be a good idea—or be willing to take a pay cut," says Williams. "If this internship, for example, introduces you to influential people and helps develop a skill-set, you'll be able to take these things to leverage them into a bigger position."

Start Saving

"Have a solid idea of the risk and savings in the bank," advises Williams. Even if it means cutting back on luxuries. "If you know the internship is going to last for six months at a minimum, that's the number you need to have in savings, and I normally advise 10 to 20 percent in savings as a risk buffer."

Network

"People love to talk about themselves," says Williams. "Find them on LinkedIn and through people you know, and consult with them."

Williams suggests asking those in similar fields questions like, "I wonder if you'd speak to me about your day-to-day life; What do you love most about the work that you do; What do you wish you would have known going into this career?"

"Those kind of questions are going to give you the information you need and will help you know the people you are going to need to know," she adds.

Now that you are armed with more than just your resume and a fresh manicure, it's time to start hitting the pavement. Happy hunting, gals.

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moving cross country, finding a great partner... or lobbing off all your hair a la Karlie Kloss). But don't fret: It's not an impossible task. It just takes some thought—and great advice.

"A lot of times people don't like what they're doing in their current job, but they haven't defined what they want to be doing in their potential new job," Nicole Williams, career expert and author of Girl On Top, tells Cosmopolitan.com.

She says nabbing your dream job starts with doing some soul-searching: "I ask people to assess components of their current working life, and match them against the career they are looking to get into."

Try asking yourself these questions...

Time: How many hours do you want to work and in what kind of environment? Big company, small, telecommute, work-from-home flexibility (you know, the kind banned at Yahoo!)

Challenge Level: How important is growth potential and being challenged to you? Are you ambitious and ready to lean in, or just looking for a 9 to 5 to fill your time?

Work Environment: Define your best possible scenario in terms of work relationships. Who are you working with and for? What kind of boss would be ideal? Do you have dreams of becoming a boss?

Passion: How important is passion to you? For example, a woman we know races triathlons and feels like she doesn't need to be passionate about her job; her passion is attached to her sport.

6. Money: How much do you need to make? How much money do you want to make?

Steps To Making A Career Change

Stop Delaying

"The longer you are in the job you are thinking of leaving, the further away you are from new opportunity," says Williams. "It doesn't get any easier. Doing it earlier is emotionally, mentally and professionally better."

Be Willing To Sacrifice Something

You may have to start from the bottom (or the middle) and work your way to the top; Either way, be ready to drop a few rungs on the corporate ladder.

"Internships can be a good idea—or be willing to take a pay cut," says Williams. "If this internship, for example, introduces you to influential people and helps develop a skill-set, you'll be able to take these things to leverage them into a bigger position."

Start Saving

"Have a solid idea of the risk and savings in the bank," advises Williams. Even if it means cutting back on luxuries. "If you know the internship is going to last for six months at a minimum, that's the number you need to have in savings, and I normally advise 10 to 20 percent in savings as a risk buffer."

Network

"People love to talk about themselves," says Williams. "Find them on LinkedIn and through people you know, and consult with them."

Williams suggests asking those in similar fields questions like, "I wonder if you'd speak to me about your day-to-day life; What do you love most about the work that you do; What do you wish you would have known going into this career?"

"Those kind of questions are going to give you the information you need and will help you know the people you are going to need to know," she adds.

Now that you are armed with more than just your resume and a fresh manicure, it's time to start hitting the pavement. Happy hunting, gals.

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How Get Your Crush to See You As a Sexual Being

Before you start pawing him, "touch your own body, like your collarbone if you have a necklace on, or your finger to your lips," Slotnick suggests. These are subtle flirty body language moves that show an openness and sensuality, establishing you as a sexual being.

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Sexual Fetishes Are Getting Less Stigmatized...Kind Of

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Wanna Do It in a Hall of Mirrors (With Channing Tatum?) Your Sexual Fantasies: Exposed!

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10 Sexual Fetishes That May or May Not Blow Your Mind

Although it’s been around since before Quentin Tarantino lovingly committed Uma Thurman’s bare feet to celluloid in Pulp Fiction, "foot hooking" has been sweeping New York lately. High-rolling dudes pay up to $200 and a $100 entrance fee at a private spa to lick and “worship” women’s feet.

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Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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The Sexual Seesaw

Sex Position of the Day

Learn a new passion pose every day!

Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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The Sexual Seesaw

Sex Position of the Day

Learn a new passion pose every day!

Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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Sex Position of the Day

Learn a new passion pose every day!

Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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Sex Position of the Day

Learn a new passion pose every day!

Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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Erotic Instructions:

Lie on your back and lift your legs so they're over your ears and parallel to the floor. Your partner, kneeling in front of you, butts his knees up against your lower back, supporting you, and leans his torso against your thighs. (You can hold his legs to stay in this vixen-esque V-shape.) Why You'll Love It:

This position will make any guy's member feel like Moby Dick, since your legs are raised (which narrows your vaginal canal) and spread (which provides the deepest penile penetration). That adds up to an extra-full feeling plus lots of fab friction for you and a tantalizingly tight squeeze for him.

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