Showing posts with label Virgin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Virgin. Show all posts

Sunday, August 25, 2013

How to Tell a Guy You're a Virgin

Good sex advice can come from very unexpected places. Case in point: Lena Dunham posted a letter she wrote to sex columnist Jamie Bufalino in 2005 as part of Instagram's #ThrowbackThursday today, as well as the majorly solid advice he gave her.

Basically, 19-year-old Lena was hoping for some guidance on how to tell guys that she was (still) a virgin:

The response she got was exactly what every gal who's feeling insecure about her no-sex-yet status needs to hear. When you get to a certain age, you feel like everyone, except you, is getting in on. And whether or not that's the case, it shouldn't matter. Check out what Bufalino's said:

Preach, dude. Being a virgin (or not) is nothing to be ashamed about, because whatever your sexual status is, it's exactly what it should be. There's so much pressure on doing the deed that it can be easy to get caught up in worrying about getting it over with or what guys will think about it—and any man who cares about a virgin's status is most likely a skeeze or a jerk.

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Friday, April 26, 2013

Vaginal Rejuvenation: The $10,000 Surgery That Makes You a Virgin Again

Kegels and jade eggs aren't the only way to tighten your vagina.

Vaginal rejuvenation—or plastic surgery of the vagina to make it tighter and/or younger looking—is becoming a hot topic thanks to celebs like reality star Brandi Glanville and actress Julie Delpy, who have both opened up about surgically tightening their vaginas. Glanville reportedly charged the $10,000 surgery to ex-husband Eddie Cibrian's credit card, while Delpy did it immediately following her son's birth, with the French healthcare program footing the bill.

But what really happens when a doc goes down on you with medical scissors? The term vaginal rejuvenation encompasses down-there plastic surgery procedures including vaginoplasty and labiaplasty.

"Vaginoplasty is a reconstructive procedure and labiaplasty is a cosmetic procedure," explains Dr. Stafford R. Broumand, MD, who performs labiaplasties and is part of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons.

Vaginoplasty is an internal surgery that re-builds the vaginal walls if they've become loose or slack with aging, stretching or childbirth, whereas labiaplasty is an external procedure that is basically a vagina "facelift" to re-shape or downsize the labia (sometimes a package deal with laser hair removal.)

While labiaplasty is more common, vaginoplasty (like the kind Glanville opted for) is the form of vaginal rejvenation that gets tongues wagging: It basically just tightens everything with the goal of "re-virginizing" patients. But it's not without risks.

"The plastic surgery society (American Society of Plastic Surgeons) doesn't condone a cosmetic vaginal reconstruction or vaginoplasty, but that doesn't mean it's not done," explains Dr. Broumand. "There are gynecologists that do it successfully and report on it, but it can have its complications."

According to Dr.Broumand, side effects can be gruesome downstairs. "You can develop non-healing wounds (and) erosion" in your vagina, he explains, adding that vaginoplasty can also damage the connection between the rectum and vagina.

"There has got to be, in my mind, a very significant reason to do a vaginal reconstruction," says Dr. Broumand of the procedure, which normally starts at around $10,000.

Lisa L., 37, underwent vaginoplasty—and would do it again in a second.

The mother of one says after giving birth to her daughter at the age of 34, she suffered muscle damage in the vagina due to the doctor's emergency use of forceps. While no huge health problems occurred, a number of issues did arise: Decreased sensation during sex, increased amount of vaginal flatulence (or, forgive us the term, queefing), and problems using tampons.

"I couldn't be happier with the results," says Lisa, who says so far, she hasn't endured any complications from her surgery eight months ago.

Lisa had to wait six weeks after the surgery to have sex with her husband with her new "teenage vagina."

"It was like having sex for the first time!" she says. "Although I think it was even more painful than I remembered the first time around."

Lisa also said for the first few months she had some numbness, which can be a side affect of vaginoplasty and worried her, but it eventually went away.

"The queefing is under control and I'm using any tampon I want again. My vagina doesn't look like a kid ever came out of it!" Lisa says.

Mission accomplished?

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Thursday, April 25, 2013

Virgin Launches New In-Flight Dating Service

Korin Miller
Korin is the site director for Cosmopolitan.com. She loves uncovering cool new research and learning more about what makes guys tick. Outside the Cosmo office, you can find her running with her dog, trying to convince friends to go to karaoke bars, and watching as much reality TV as humanly possible. Hit her up on Twitter: @korinmiller
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Michelle Ruiz
Michelle is the news editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's obsessed with interviewing celebrities and spotting the latest pop culture trends. Her life highlights include chatting with Ryan Gosling about sex dolls, dancing on stage at the Oprah show, and shopping with her mom on Long Island. Tweet her: @michelleruiz
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Dara is the associate web editor for Cosmopolitan.com. She's intrigued by all things digital. Dara loves playing with html and discovering new studies. When she's not reading up on the latest cocktail recipes (for work, of course), she can be found breaking it down on the dance floor or watching the Investigative Discovery channel. She also has a sick obsession with nail polish, elephants, and most importantly, Nutella. Dara basically lives on Twitter, so tweet at her and say hey: @dadeeyo.
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Elisa Benson
Elisa Benson is the senior editor of social media for @Cosmopolitan?so, yes, she tweets about sex for a living. Elisa grew up in Ohio, attended Colgate University, and wrote love and relationship advice for Seventeen before graduating to Cosmo. She lives for girly things (weddings and eyelash extensions and Pretty Little Liars?) and frequently tweets about all of the above: @elisabenson.
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