Showing posts with label Guess. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Guess. Show all posts

Saturday, May 11, 2013

@WhiteFeminist Aims to Re-Educate... Well, You Can Guess Who

My friend Ashley, who happens to be black, was recently telling me that she'd encountered a racist laundromat in her Greenpoint, Brooklyn neighborhood. She mentioned it to her super-liberal, hippie-ish roommate (who happens to be white, and who I will not name here!), who acted outraged on Ashley's behalf and made a big fuss about never going there again.

Shortly afterwards, Ashley saw her going there.

That anecdote is sort of a good way to introduce the sort of person that a new Twitter account, @WhiteFeminist, is sending up. That college friend from Great Neck whose wealthy doctor parents paid $3,000 for her to go to Rwanda and "volunteer"? The girl at work who talks about "all those poor women in the Bronx"? Any privileged Caucasian woman who aligns herself with or appropriates certain cultural elements of a minority race and subsequently assume they understand the experiences of the women of said race, in general? All of the above may be signifiers of #WhiteFeminists. (Think the wonderful and on-point satirical website Black People Love Us.)

A fan of the site and feminist scholar, Afton Ojuri, told College Progress: “Often when I read the word ‘feminism’ I inherently read ‘white feminism. [W]hat womanism is to me is a feminism centered around the struggles of women of color and interrogating not only racial inequalities, but also sexist and classist inequalities together.”

“If you're laughing, [we] hope you're doing so because you realize that what's being said is problematic to a point of ridiculousness,” the account managers said. “Ultimately, we feel that satire as an agent of education is a highly effective way of combatting these attitudes, and can be used to facilitate dialogues of intersectionality among western feminists.”

Basically, #WhiteFeminists is educated to teach real-life @WhiteFeminists that this kind of patronizing attitude towards people of color isn't helping anyone. But are all women who are white and feminists inherently @WhiteFeminists? I'm white and a feminist, and while I'm good at spotting #WhiteFeminists in the wild, I certainly don't consider myself one of them.

Follow Anna on Twitter: @annabreslaw

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Thursday, April 18, 2013

Guess Whose Hair This Is?!

moving cross country, finding a great partner... or lobbing off all your hair a la Karlie Kloss). But don't fret: It's not an impossible task. It just takes some thought—and great advice.

"A lot of times people don't like what they're doing in their current job, but they haven't defined what they want to be doing in their potential new job," Nicole Williams, career expert and author of Girl On Top, tells Cosmopolitan.com.

She says nabbing your dream job starts with doing some soul-searching: "I ask people to assess components of their current working life, and match them against the career they are looking to get into."

Try asking yourself these questions...

Time: How many hours do you want to work and in what kind of environment? Big company, small, telecommute, work-from-home flexibility (you know, the kind banned at Yahoo!)

Challenge Level: How important is growth potential and being challenged to you? Are you ambitious and ready to lean in, or just looking for a 9 to 5 to fill your time?

Work Environment: Define your best possible scenario in terms of work relationships. Who are you working with and for? What kind of boss would be ideal? Do you have dreams of becoming a boss?

Passion: How important is passion to you? For example, a woman we know races triathlons and feels like she doesn't need to be passionate about her job; her passion is attached to her sport.

6. Money: How much do you need to make? How much money do you want to make?

Steps To Making A Career Change

Stop Delaying

"The longer you are in the job you are thinking of leaving, the further away you are from new opportunity," says Williams. "It doesn't get any easier. Doing it earlier is emotionally, mentally and professionally better."

Be Willing To Sacrifice Something

You may have to start from the bottom (or the middle) and work your way to the top; Either way, be ready to drop a few rungs on the corporate ladder.

"Internships can be a good idea—or be willing to take a pay cut," says Williams. "If this internship, for example, introduces you to influential people and helps develop a skill-set, you'll be able to take these things to leverage them into a bigger position."

Start Saving

"Have a solid idea of the risk and savings in the bank," advises Williams. Even if it means cutting back on luxuries. "If you know the internship is going to last for six months at a minimum, that's the number you need to have in savings, and I normally advise 10 to 20 percent in savings as a risk buffer."

Network

"People love to talk about themselves," says Williams. "Find them on LinkedIn and through people you know, and consult with them."

Williams suggests asking those in similar fields questions like, "I wonder if you'd speak to me about your day-to-day life; What do you love most about the work that you do; What do you wish you would have known going into this career?"

"Those kind of questions are going to give you the information you need and will help you know the people you are going to need to know," she adds.

Now that you are armed with more than just your resume and a fresh manicure, it's time to start hitting the pavement. Happy hunting, gals.

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moving cross country, finding a great partner... or lobbing off all your hair a la Karlie Kloss). But don't fret: It's not an impossible task. It just takes some thought—and great advice.

"A lot of times people don't like what they're doing in their current job, but they haven't defined what they want to be doing in their potential new job," Nicole Williams, career expert and author of Girl On Top, tells Cosmopolitan.com.

She says nabbing your dream job starts with doing some soul-searching: "I ask people to assess components of their current working life, and match them against the career they are looking to get into."

Try asking yourself these questions...

Time: How many hours do you want to work and in what kind of environment? Big company, small, telecommute, work-from-home flexibility (you know, the kind banned at Yahoo!)

Challenge Level: How important is growth potential and being challenged to you? Are you ambitious and ready to lean in, or just looking for a 9 to 5 to fill your time?

Work Environment: Define your best possible scenario in terms of work relationships. Who are you working with and for? What kind of boss would be ideal? Do you have dreams of becoming a boss?

Passion: How important is passion to you? For example, a woman we know races triathlons and feels like she doesn't need to be passionate about her job; her passion is attached to her sport.

6. Money: How much do you need to make? How much money do you want to make?

Steps To Making A Career Change

Stop Delaying

"The longer you are in the job you are thinking of leaving, the further away you are from new opportunity," says Williams. "It doesn't get any easier. Doing it earlier is emotionally, mentally and professionally better."

Be Willing To Sacrifice Something

You may have to start from the bottom (or the middle) and work your way to the top; Either way, be ready to drop a few rungs on the corporate ladder.

"Internships can be a good idea—or be willing to take a pay cut," says Williams. "If this internship, for example, introduces you to influential people and helps develop a skill-set, you'll be able to take these things to leverage them into a bigger position."

Start Saving

"Have a solid idea of the risk and savings in the bank," advises Williams. Even if it means cutting back on luxuries. "If you know the internship is going to last for six months at a minimum, that's the number you need to have in savings, and I normally advise 10 to 20 percent in savings as a risk buffer."

Network

"People love to talk about themselves," says Williams. "Find them on LinkedIn and through people you know, and consult with them."

Williams suggests asking those in similar fields questions like, "I wonder if you'd speak to me about your day-to-day life; What do you love most about the work that you do; What do you wish you would have known going into this career?"

"Those kind of questions are going to give you the information you need and will help you know the people you are going to need to know," she adds.

Now that you are armed with more than just your resume and a fresh manicure, it's time to start hitting the pavement. Happy hunting, gals.

Want more stories from Carson? Follow her on Twitter.

Photo Credit: Getty Images">Whether you're a doctor who dreams of doing hair, or a hairdresser dreaming of climbing the corporate ladder, career expert Nicole Williams has pro tips on how to get started.


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Sunday, March 31, 2013

Guess Whose Hair This Is?!

And no, it's not Pink. 

...It's actually Lauren Conrad!

The celeb recently attended the Holi festival (aka festival of colors) in India where, as tradition goes, you throw colored powder, water, and paint on and around everyone that is celebrating. Needless to say, Miss Conrad got doused with a rainbow of colors, which resulted in her newly stained pale pink hair.

The caption that she posted with her pic read, "So apparently it doesn't wash out... Looks like I'm sporting pink locks for the rest of this trip."

But you know what, we actually dig her new strand shade. It suits her California cool-girl vibe—plus, transforming your hair into a color wheel is super popular for spring—if you're taking cues from the runway, that is (i.e. the models at Peter Som's spring 2013 show who rocked multi-colored manes).

What do you think about LC's new 'do?

Photo: Instagram

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Monday, August 20, 2012

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Friday, January 27, 2012

Guess Who We're Rooting For On Oscar Night...

The 2012 Oscar nominations were just announced and, naturally, the usual dramas popped up a lot on the list—“The Descendants,” “Moneyball,” “The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo”… .  

They’re all great, but we were especially amped to see that “Bridesmaids,” one of our favorite flicks of the year, snagged two nominations. Melissa McCarthy nabbed a best supporting actress nod for her role as the hilarious, wise-cracking sister-in-law Megan, and the movie’s writers, Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo, were nominated for best original screenplay.  

Comedies rarely get love during awards season and they almost never win. But, like nominees always say, it’s just a thrill to be nominated. Even better, these noms prove that “Bridesmaids” was awesome. Before its release, some critics had doubts that a mostly-female cast could pull off a comedy that wasn’t just a blockbuster—it was actually good.  

Guess they were wrong.  

Click here for the full list of Oscar nominations.

Who will you root for on Oscar night?

Photo: Universal Pictures


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